When a Hole is made by Two Halves
Only with fruits does the proverb “Two halves make a whole” apply! It is usual for a priest to remark that two halves have united to form a whole during a wedding ceremony. Despite how romantic it might seem, it is regrettably untrue. In case, when your wife is not romantic you will think i hate my wife.
Many people have entered into marriage with the expectation that their spouse will complete them. The spouse is then under unwarranted pressure to work miracles! The husband and wife are instantly changed into inadequate substitutes for God, who is the only one capable of bringing about true, long-lasting transformation in a person.
Young husbands frequently think of their wives as their personal pharmacy, ready to treat any wounds. The wide-eyed bride imagines her husband as the shining knight who will deliver her from all of her problems. Naturally, it doesn’t take long for them to both realize that the “magician spouse” had forgotten to bring a wand.
The phrase “two halves make a hole” is more correct. A pernicious, black pit that draws the pair down into crushed hopes, remorse, and, frequently, divorce. Every spouse is a work in progress since an imperfect person can never complete anybody else!
Marriage has suffered a death-blow in many western countries, although it still exists in many third-world nations as a rite of passage into adulthood. As the divorce rate rises steadily, it limps along, malnourished and wounded.
Before they even consider marriage, disillusioned couples are residing together as a test to determine their compatibility. A British advertisement that offered divorce in a few weeks for 17 pounds just came across my computer! The allure was that there wouldn’t be any paperwork, legal bills, or court costs. “Over 100,000 satisfied customers!” was the slogan. ‘
The Christian Church is wringing its hands in confusion as the institution of marriage crumbles in front of a carefree society. Unfortunately, the “world” has invaded the Church and tainted its adherence to biblical principles, while the Church has rushed out into the world and taken up its way of life. The devil himself was behind the whole thing!
Research demonstrates that the percentage of divorce among Christians and non-Christians is nearly comparable, demonstrating how much the Church has absorbed worldly standards.
Three years ago, a study conducted in the United States found that 49% of all marriages included a remarriage for either one or both spouses. A 40% divorce rate across all marriages was also predicted. This study found that first marriages that ended in divorce lasted, on average, eight years.
If the majority of married couples who planned to have kids did so in the third or fourth year of their marriage, the kids would be between the ages of four and five at the time of the divorce! The relation will lead to divorce if wife does not satisfy his husband and his husband thought that i hate my wife.
According to psychologists, death is the most traumatic experience in life, and divorce is the second-worst. The victims of this destruction are mostly children! Children are left confused, rejected, angry, and unhappy as their parents form new homes with new partners.